Life can be
boring at times. People of all ages often express that they are bored because
they have nothing to do; however, the problems that could be tackled are
endless in number, and the world is in desperate need for solutions. Yet, some people
work to avoid boredom at all costs; they judge boredom to be useless. In fact,
we can be bored out of our minds. When we are out of our minds, sort of speak,
we allow life to unfold without manipulation or any predetermined direction.
The universe unfolds as it should.When we are on vacation, for instance, life
unfolds so differently than it does throughout the year. Several things strike
me. One is the contrast between city and country life.It is easy to get caught
up with the hectic pace of life and endless traffic tie-ups in the asphalt
jungle. Now compare it to the slow pace and magnificent views on the shore of a
lake, with nothing on your mind but the beauty before you.The morning or
afternoon dip in the shimmering waters offers respite from the heat and humidity.
Slowly the tensions of city living give way to a welcomed quietness where daily
routines are forgotten and time is measured, not by the hands on a clock, but
by the contentment that fills your body, mind and spirit.
When you have
nothing to do, you might as well be experiencing the nothingness longed for in
Buddhism. Transcendental meditation requires that you repeat a mantra over and over leading the
meditator to many moments of mindlessness. With time mindlessness, a presence
of awe is replaced. Contemplation ensues before the magnitude and magnificence
of all that exists.
Boredom can be
exciting when we allow for a rather spontaneous prioritizing of what gives
meaning to our lives. We arrive at a hierarchy of values. Concerns are reduced
to a number of essential concerns. Life erupts in ways we had almost forgotten
in the hustle and bustle of everyday life. The lapping of water on the shore of
a lake can become all that exists and the gentle breeze can mesmerize us to the
point that we can experience the presence of God. God shall not come to you in
a hurricane or a tornado but in the words of Isaiah “in a gentle breeze.”
At Clear Lake
in Ontario, a storm very similar to a tornado caused a transformer to
malfunction and the pole on which it was anchored was shattered. A large tree
fell on a car and a guest house causing extensive damage. The transformer was
to the right of the property where I was staying and the tree fell to the left.
We remained untouched. Was the sparing of the cottage and property an act of
Providence? If we were to say, yes, then why was the neighbour’s property hit
so hard? What kind of a God would make
such choices? God would be a lottery God, drawing the names of those to be
destroyed and those to be saved. Untenable!
Yet, a redefinition of Providence as the
affirmation of our humanity became evident when everyone was concerned about
the neighbour’s property, especially since he was on the verge of selling his
home and property.
Then a providential
moment!The workers at Hydro Ontario
were hard at work replacing the transformer when one member of my family
realized that charging iPhones in the car killed his battery.No one had booster cables.He approached the workers and inquired if any
one of them had booster cables. No. He continued, “Let me see if anyone down
the line has any.” A co-worker said, “I’ll go and get them.”
Upon returning, he used his truck to boost
the car’s battery.He was thanked and
offered twenty dollars for his trouble.He refused and said he was paid well and it wasn’t necessary.The human
potential to do what is right is another way to feel the gentle breeze, that
presence of God in a helping hand, a smile, in all the ways God’s Spirit makes
itself present.It is time just ‘to be’.
We are at our best when we remind ourselves
we are human be-ings and we stop being when we lose ourselves in busy-doing
everything under the sun. Vanity is Vanities.The awe we feel ensues from taking time we could call thinking time,
reflective time, or meditation.
Boredom
is exciting when it allows us to think before we act, to act with the assurance
to do what we have to do, and when we listen in silence to our inner spiritual
selves it allows boredom to be transformed into meditation.A true spirit comes from the depths of our
being. Life is not a problem to be
solved but a mystery to be lived.
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